{"id":1593,"date":"2003-10-30T13:55:47","date_gmt":"2003-10-30T18:55:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.quirkspace.com\/quirkblog\/?p=338"},"modified":"2003-10-30T13:55:47","modified_gmt":"2003-10-30T18:55:47","slug":"i-missed-the-fame-bus","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.quirkspace.com\/quirkblog\/?p=1593","title":{"rendered":"I Missed the Fame Bus."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Well, it looks like I missed out on a chance to be part of a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.salon.com\/mwt\/feature\/2003\/10\/30\/groom_blogs\/index.html\">Salon<\/a> article on &#8220;Groom Blogs.&#8221;  I&#8217;d gotten an e-mail about it a couple days ago, but it got shuffled off to my slush pile.  Probably just as well.  I don&#8217;t really consider this a &#8220;Groom Blog&#8221; any more than I consider it a &#8220;Photography Blog&#8221; or a &#8220;Wine Blog.&#8221;  Being a groom and the related wedding stuff is just an extension of the stuff that I usually blather on about.  Getting married is a huge and important part of my life, but not going to make it my sole writing subject.<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\nSome of the &#8216;blogs mentioned in the article go into <b>far<\/b> more detail than I&#8217;d want to get into here.  For example, I&#8217;m not going to give many details about the bachelor party&#8230;  We had dinner and then headed off to a strip club somewhere around Inkster&#8230;  It was near to the airport and the auto manufacturing areas.  My friends who work in the various auto industries are much more knowledgeable than I am about those sorts of places.    There are a lot more of them out near where they work than there are where I work.  I guess manufacturing attracts more strip clubs than, say, a university hospital.  Anyway, I&#8217;d like to keep my mythical PG rating, so I&#8217;m not going to go into details here.  Maybe later.<\/p>\n<p>Back to the wedding subject, my Fiancee and I headed over to the county courthouse yesterday at lunch and had fun filling out the forms and playing with the pencils on the &#8220;Group W&#8221; bench&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Whoops!  I mean at the records office!  Geez, it&#8217;s still a month away from Thanksgiving, and I&#8217;ve already got &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/ASIN\/B000002KOA\/qid=1067539074\/sr=2-2\/ref=sr_2_2\/103-0121626-2525407\">Alice&#8217;s Restaurant<\/a>&#8221; on the brain.  Sorry about that.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, we got the paperwork in, held up our hands and promised that we&#8217;d read the little laminated handout of the marriage laws, paid $20 and ta-dah! we&#8217;re on the three day waiting list for a marriage license.  I find it kind of amusing in a sick sort of way that there&#8217;s a three day wait to get a marriage license in Michigan, but there&#8217;s no waiting period to <a href=\"\/\/www.bradycampaign.org\/legislation\/state\/viewstate.asp?state=mi#wait\">buy a gun<\/a>.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>(update, Nov. 21, 2003)<\/p>\n<p>A routine check of the server logs shows that this page has been linked to by the <a href=\"http:\/\/the.honoluluadvertiser.com\/article\/2003\/Nov\/14\/il\/il04a.html\">Honolulu Advetiser<\/a>&#8230;  Sometimes I love being a geek&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>So, anyway, hi there!  If I&#8217;d known you were coming I would have set up a better entry page&#8230;  As it is, if you&#8217;d like to skip directly to the stuff I&#8217;ve written about getting married, I&#8217;ve set up an archive of those entries <a href=\"https:\/\/www.quirkspace.com\/archives\/cat_wedding.html\">here<\/a>&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Otherwise, feel free to come in and browse!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Well, it looks like I missed out on a chance to be part of a Salon article on &#8220;Groom Blogs.&#8221; I&#8217;d gotten an e-mail about it a couple days ago, but it got shuffled off to my slush pile. Probably &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.quirkspace.com\/quirkblog\/?p=1593\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[23],"class_list":["post-1593","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","tag-wedding"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.quirkspace.com\/quirkblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1593","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.quirkspace.com\/quirkblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.quirkspace.com\/quirkblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.quirkspace.com\/quirkblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.quirkspace.com\/quirkblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1593"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.quirkspace.com\/quirkblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1593\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.quirkspace.com\/quirkblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1593"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.quirkspace.com\/quirkblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1593"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.quirkspace.com\/quirkblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1593"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}